Monday, October 13, 2008

The saddest smile I ever saw

We would drive down to the ocean as a family each year come May

And we would sit on the pier and drink sarsaparilla and fish off the pier.

Dad would sit in the car and listen to the radio

And we would catch fish and drink sarsaparilla

Mum would bait the hooks and smile and pour the drinks

And we would fish and drink

Dad in the car

Mum on the hooks, smiling

Dad would stick his head out the car window and yell; “Get me a fucking drink woman”

And mum would smile and dad would get his drink

And we would fish and drink sarsaparilla

And mum would smile and bait the hooks

And it was the saddest smile I ever saw....................





Been off sick for a while, so I will get around to you all and see what you have been up to.

45 comments:

Laura said...

That's not a happy time...sounds bittersweet at best.

Glad to see you back though :)

Bo Bo said...

Bunny- Great fishing though ;)

Anonymous said...

Bittersweet indeed. Did you catch anything? Apart from cynicism....

Clyde said...

A brave and proud woman.
I bet you love her

And you a learned fisherman---does that make you the Masterbaiter ?

Bo Bo said...

(.)(.)-Cynicism, that’s a big word, did you have a weekend off the NOS? ; )

Clyde- No it just makes me a wanker.

Clyde said...

Or owner operator

Anonymous said...

Bo.. Good to have you back! Trust you are feeling better.. This is a sad post obviously.. But it has victory as well.. you can set your mind to never allow it to happen again in your personal family.. You make a difference! love Tiff

Bo Bo said...

Clyde- I prefer to use the services of a contractor.

Tiff- You’re right. Now get me a fucking drink woman ;) Things have heated up over at your place while I have been away. You and Spiky are going to burst my blood vessels at this rate.

unique_stephen said...

It was a link to Ani Difranco - Not Angry Anymore.

Bo Bo said...

US- Very appropriate. You’re a softy at heart ya big lug. How was the birthday?

unique_stephen said...

Shhh don't tell; i work hard to cultivate the image of myself as a perverted creep.

Just posted on it. Great - and stress free (for me, Alex was a little rushed tho). Annalise is a lovely little girl and had a great time.

Josh said...

Sarsaparilla? No wonder you are fucked up.

As for you not baiting your own hooks....I thought that was the first law of fishing?

cat said...

At least your father asked, my father, if he had to ask there was a beating to come for sure.

My father would rattle his ice and my mother would stop what she was doing and get his Martini, then go back to what she was doing. He came first, Always.

It wasn't until my step-father came along until I knew what a real father was. He was the best father I knew, even though he was my step-father.

Anonymous said...

im glad to cause a red blooded reaction in Bloggsville! its a SPIKY/Tiff combo.. And dont forget the Village Idiot... combos are good! especially surf and turf.. and dont forget the carpetbagger! please fetch me some Baileys! now!love Tiff

Bo Bo said...

US- I hear you do a good tramp stamp.

Josh- I’m fucked up? Look who’s talking Paul Macurio.

Cat- Life lessons can come in many different forms. And I’ll have mine like Bond thanks love, Shaken not stirred.

Tiff- Baileys coming right up… How do you take it? With a dash of get your own bloody drink?

fingers said...

No wonder you're sick.
Who the fuck drinks sasparilla and fish ??
Try a martini next time, you silly cunt...

unique_stephen said...

You should see the foot print my size 10 left on Tiff's behind

Friday said...

Sarsparilla is my favourite!
; )
x

a girl said...

i've never been fishing. i would like to.

Bo Bo said...

UN- I would love to see it...

Friday- Mine too. How are you by the way?

Jane- If you get me my drinks I will take you ;)

a girl said...

haha. can 18 years old buy beer is aussieland?

a girl said...

you're 29? i thought you were 45.

oops

Bo Bo said...

Jane- Yep, You’re an alcoholic by 18 in Aussieland.

I’m 29; you must have been thinking of Fingers, he’s really old, like I think scientists just found a fossil footprint of his in the Northern Territory.

fingers said...

Jane: What are you laughing at, Cabbage ?? You SHOULD take up fishing...it might stop you twiddling your diddle for a few hours...

Anonymous said...

no.... i enjoy my Baileys when im lying down.. i lov it in my belly-button, with my lover taking his time to savour it, on his way down... love fetch the Baileys!!! love Tiff

ps. have a look at what happened at Janes after you left last night.. he he, and im introducing her to fingers.

Spiky Zora Jones said...

Bo bo...that 8is sad. Though I've seen the same smile on mother many times. My father was a shit to her and she took it so many years.

I pampered her when I got older. Took her shopping and bought her expensive clothes, shoes and purses. The things she was not able to buy herself because she was raising us. I miss her and our times shopping and eating at restaurants. She had a beautiful smile and warm eyes.

So now I am crying.

Spiky Zora Jones said...

Okay...I'm back. fingers be nice to jane. Plus there is no twiddling a diddle when one fishes.

She's a nice girl...and it was a funny. :D

Ciao Bo Bo...hey I didn't know you were 29 years old either.

Bo Bo said...

Jane- Don’t mind fingers he’s what we call a bird of prey. But check out his blog cause for all his downfalls he’s a funny and intelligent prick.

Tiff-I don’t take my Baileys with belly-lint

Spiky- I do the same to my mum. But if you want a substitute you can pamper me anytime you want. Fine dinning restaurants only though.

How old do people think I am?

fingers said...

You guys are like my own personal warning labels...I'm quite sure Jane realises I was just twiddling her diddle...

Spiky Zora Jones said...

Bo bo...I never really thought about it...about your age, that is.

And yes, only the best places for you babe. We will have our own waiter standing by ready to fill our every need. I love those places but sometimes I like a little privacy with my date. *wink* :D

Fingers babe...I would love to be your private warning label. And I'm sure jane knows that about you...and may soon be a devote member of the cult fingers.

I am.

Pssst, when do we sacrifice the virgins. I'll go pick them up and make sure they are virgins. :D

Ciao BO Bo.

Ciao Fingers...oh and hey, I have to give a shout out to my girl tiffany. Hey baby.

Bo Bo said...

Fingers- We all know you twiddle something

Spiky- Well you reserve a table at Spago and I’m there.

a girl said...

spiky you can sacrifice me

Bo Bo said...

Jane- I’m going to leave that one alone.

Jen- You know its going downhill when the comments are better than the actual post. Feeling better?

Anonymous said...

The comments are not better than the post, my dear.
Getting there

Anonymous said...

Bo.. hi Jen.. :-) hi Spiky.. :-) Baby.. My belly button has no lint.. :-) Would you like to give it a try..? As for unique steve giving me a kick in the ass with a size 10? you have to be jokin! :-) lets leave it at that.. Does the finger also supply you with the blue stuff..? The post was not weak at all Bo.. not at all.. it was straight down the line and powerful. now listen up and bring me a drink!! love Tiff

Anonymous said...

Bo.. i must apologise.. Iv had lindt in my belly button.. But you spell it Lindt... And i favour the lindor.. little round ones with red and white wrapper.. Know the ones? stunning chocs.. and they melt easily.. :-) you must agree that im on top form today.. had my Lindt you see. :-) Love Tiff

Friday said...

Belly lint?
I just threw up in my mouth!!
Im with you on that one Bo..
And thanks for asking.. Im um.. hmmm.. farked.. but its all good.
I has me bourbon!!
Still smiling.
xx

Anonymous said...

I been NOS free for a few weeks. My brain cells must be growing back. Time for a hammering I say.

Anonymous said...

Bo.. whats up baby? its rugby fever down here... Blue Bulls and The Sharks in the cup final.. i detect a bull gettin savaged! but then again... who knows! love Tiff

Spiky Zora Jones said...

Bo bo...see what jane wrote...I can sacrifice her. hehehe.

You are a nut sweetie. *wink*

Ciao Bo Bo...looking into Spagos too. :D
Ciao babes.

Bo Bo said...

Jen- Have a few shots of whisky and you’ll be right.

Tiff- I don’t care about the footprint I just wanna see that ass ;)

Tiff- What about chocolate starfish? You like them?

Friday- Well I’m having a whisky tonight so I will have one for you babe.

(.)(.)- STOP! Hammer time?

Tiff- I’m off rugby at the moment after my team’s dismal performance in the finals. I’m still licking my wounds.

Spiky- Yes I saw it, I dedicated three wanks to that sentence alone.

a girl said...

spiky zora,
"i trust you to kill me" (i love rocco de luca btw)

i might as well put it to good use-like for sacrificial purposes

=)

Friday said...

Hey Bo.. Thanks mate. I might have me one too.

And can I just say that ooof cooourse 'she' likes chocolate starfish. Dont 'they' all.

Pls stop now Bo, yr hurting my head.

; )

Memphis said...

My parents were something like that, except Mom would spend every waking moment trying to get us all to ally with her against Dad. Dad would pretend to ignore the hate and just go on with things as if he didn't care. When he was old and mellow she took the opportunity to go from passive/aggressive to straight up aggressive bitch. Then he died. Now she's all bitter because he's gone. People just make no sense.

Ms Smack said...

Sad story and great inspiration to not repeat history with your own child.

xx