Last night having a few drinks with friends and talking absolute shit as always the conversation turned to the question of cheating and what you consider as cheating. Coming home and finding your wife with another mans cock in her mouth, well then yes that would not entirely be monogamy.
But the question came up of “What if they were sitting on separate couches completely naked and masturbating in front of each other and never actually touched?” This started a mix response of “Fucking oath that’s cheating are you fucking crazy”, “Well their not touching each other so technically their not cheating”(at this point my mate who said that looked at his wife and did not add any further comments to the conversation)
But what it did do was divide us into half that did think it was cheating and half that didn’t. Mind you the half that didn’t were the bloke, which says allot about the difference in sexes and their thought processes and from the emails I received from some of the boys this morning it didn’t do to well for their sleeping arrangement either.
So what do you think? Cheating or not?
Tuesday, December 18, 2007
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It's "cheating" in my mind. It's a sexual act, just because they aren't touching is irrelevant.
I have a question Bo Bo. Would I bother you if your wife discreetly sucked a few other cocks?
The key word there is discreetly. Ignorance is bliss Kitty. But don’t get me wrong I have on many occasions offered up the opportunity for my wife to experience the power of two men. She has not taken me up on this but I do see the twinkle in her eye. This may be her thinking “Already experienced it big boy” or it could be her contemplating it. Either way life’s there to be enjoyed any way you like it.
Tricky sticky question...
but my answer is yes, it is cheating. Cheating is exacerbated more with each physical contact--whether it be cock in mouth to cock in ass. It begins with the mind.
Sexuality--especially in its most visceral animalistic form begins within the brain. You begin to cheat the moment your body reacts whether with moist musk or an explosion of orgasm. The level of cheating only coincides with the level of ones conscience.
There are some that flog themselves the minute they spank their monkey to Heidi Klum, and others who will find justification in going balls to the walls on his best friends wife.
Cheating is also tolerable to one's own lifestyle. I know some that will divorce on even finding a girlie magazine in their husband's briefcase (yes, uppity prudes, I know), and others who consider an occasional cheat day a fact of life.
So he had cake that day; he'll be a better boy tomorrow.
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huh.
Anise- I’ve got one heavy conscience.
Kitty- I would be a hypocrite if I did get upset. In an ideal world I would prefer her to let me know that she wanted to fuck other men and she would have my blessing. If she wants to go behind my back to get her rocks then that’s her bag to carry.
Yup, it's cheating. Anything that you can't do, in front of your other half, is cheating.
Cheating on the mind, heart happens before the physical act itself, in my humble opinion.
Open relationships are a different story.
cheating with your heart
still cheating
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